I am a reformed cheater. I may lose my Man Card for writing this, but I feel that I owe it women around the world to share my experience so that they can avoid the hurt I have caused so many. These signs of a cheating man may not be universally applicable but they are what I used.
It always amazed me at the surprise women exhibited when they found out that I cheated on them. As a relationship ebbed away I would move onto the next woman. She would usually recognize that I was cheating on my current relationship. She would usually think that she could change that. The big secret is that they can't.
Men can change, but they have to want it, and that comes from soul-searching and being alone, don't believe what a cheater tells you they have a lot of experience bullshitting their way out of situations.
My partner was never made a part of my social group. It was far too easy to have one of them slip about the gorgeous redhead I was with last week after a couple of drinks at the local club. If friends or family aren't introduced to you after you've been together for awhile it may well be that you aren't alone in having him provide affection.
One successful ploy that I utilized was to be Mr. Sensitive. You could pour your heart and soul out to me and I'd understand. This creates a false sense of trust in the relationship. If your night consists of talking followed by sexual relations or vice versa, you may be being played. Men's intentions are usually sexual. If you don't mind being someone who is played with that's fine. If you find t his offensive, it's time to find someone else who really cares for you.
Dating sites can also be something you need to keep a careful eye on. If you're in a relationship with a guy and you catch him on one of these sites, he's not looking for a friend. Instead, it's a fool-proof way to meet women outside of the social circle you're both in. That gives him less of a chance of being caught. If you're on one of the sites, you should be careful about the men without pictures on their profiles. You get more hits when you have a picture, it makes you wonder why any guy wouldn't.
Even though I was with a few good women during my time, I still ended up cheating on them. That made me feel really guilty. I would do special things for her to make up for the cheating, from roses to massages. It really wasn't happening to treat her right, though. I just wanted to get rid of the guilty feeling I had.
It always amazed me at the surprise women exhibited when they found out that I cheated on them. As a relationship ebbed away I would move onto the next woman. She would usually recognize that I was cheating on my current relationship. She would usually think that she could change that. The big secret is that they can't.
Men can change, but they have to want it, and that comes from soul-searching and being alone, don't believe what a cheater tells you they have a lot of experience bullshitting their way out of situations.
My partner was never made a part of my social group. It was far too easy to have one of them slip about the gorgeous redhead I was with last week after a couple of drinks at the local club. If friends or family aren't introduced to you after you've been together for awhile it may well be that you aren't alone in having him provide affection.
One successful ploy that I utilized was to be Mr. Sensitive. You could pour your heart and soul out to me and I'd understand. This creates a false sense of trust in the relationship. If your night consists of talking followed by sexual relations or vice versa, you may be being played. Men's intentions are usually sexual. If you don't mind being someone who is played with that's fine. If you find t his offensive, it's time to find someone else who really cares for you.
Dating sites can also be something you need to keep a careful eye on. If you're in a relationship with a guy and you catch him on one of these sites, he's not looking for a friend. Instead, it's a fool-proof way to meet women outside of the social circle you're both in. That gives him less of a chance of being caught. If you're on one of the sites, you should be careful about the men without pictures on their profiles. You get more hits when you have a picture, it makes you wonder why any guy wouldn't.
Even though I was with a few good women during my time, I still ended up cheating on them. That made me feel really guilty. I would do special things for her to make up for the cheating, from roses to massages. It really wasn't happening to treat her right, though. I just wanted to get rid of the guilty feeling I had.
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