21 Questions To Ask A Guy

By David Web

Questions are the most amazingly simple things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, "How to win friends and influence people" talks about the benefit of asking questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.

Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will most likely attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are most popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation jump-started. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.

Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started

1. If you're a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?

3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?

4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?

7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?

8. What was the funniest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with a person who is so way smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?

11. What's the worst lie you've ever told in your life? Where you caught out?

12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?

14. What's the highest priority for you when considering a partner - good looks, intelligence, sense of humor, or something else?

Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!

15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?

16. What's the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What turns you off the most sexually?

19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?

20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do?

21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?

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Does Your Office Need a 3 Drawer File Cabinet?

By Evan Miro

You might be faced with this question at work- would you prefer a 2 or 3 drawer file cabinet to organize your files? This does not have to confuse you as long as you have your priorities straight.

Nowadays, with the onset of computer technology and hi-tech gadgets and programs, a lot of people are asking if they still need to file their documents in drawers! Well, the answer is yes! Although we have already the electronic filing system which a lot of organizations are currently embracing, the ordinary filing of documents is still a lot better for several people.

A reason why some people hesitate to use them is the space factor. These file cabinets are big, and you might have limited space in which to put them. There is also another consideration- filing and organizing documents in cabinets is physically taxing. It may eat up a lot of time and effort that you could be channeling into something else. Whereas if you store them in a computer instead, it would be much lighter and easier work.

Which method you choose would depend upon the policies and needs of the company you are working for. The advantage of a filing cabinet becomes clear during those emergencies when the computer system is down or crashes and you have to obtain a copy of a specific document immediately. Since troubleshooting the computer may take some time, this may prove to be a crucial problem. In a worst case scenario, the computer would not be completely repaired and you will not be able to recover that particular file.

If you've chosen to use a real file cabinet, on the other hand, then you can go on to the next decision, what kind of file cabinet would you need? First, take a look at the documents you have to file. Their type and bulk will help you confront this decision.

Choose the 3 drawer file cabinet if you are dealing with a heavy amount of documents. This is because this type is the most space-efficient, and can store a great deal of documents. If you have a space problem in your office, go for the vertical 3 drawer cabinet. There are 3 drawers on top of each other, and yet they take up just as much space as a 2 drawer file cabinet.

Once you have determined the number of drawers you need, you will have to choose the type of material for your filing cabinet. There are file cabinets made of wood, as well as those made of aluminum. The ones made of wood are recommended if you work at home, or have your own office. This is because of its homey feel, and it does not stick out like a sore thumb among the house dcor. There are wooden cabinets available in different colors, so you are able to pick one that matches with the color motif of the rest of your furniture. However, if you are working in an office building, an aluminum file cabinet might be best. Because stainless steel is often its make, it is higher in durability, which would be required from your repeated closing and opening of drawers. Often, in an office, you will not be the only person using them, and they could be easily worn if not of a strong material. Steel cabinets are lighter and sturdier than the wooden cabinets.

The 3 drawer file cabinet is the best option to choose from if you are thinking of buying a cabinet for the office that requires several documents to be filed. It will definitely save up on space.

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Understanding Remote Viewing

By J Lucas Cox

Many more people are beginning to find out how to remote view. Some individuals consider it much like their own personal time machine. However, remote viewing is a psychic ability, one that permits you to see future events. These are events, which you would never be able to see all by yourself without training.

Some people have been able to use their ability of remote viewing to accurately describe an object or place on the other side of the world that he or she could not possibly see by any other means. The dowsing rod is often used as an example of how remote viewing works, Just as the dowsing rod looks or searchers for something, so does the person who is doing the remote viewing.

Remote viewing does not limit you to any preset time, including the present. You can travel into the past or the future to find the information you wish to learn or see. Some individuals compare remote viewing to astral travel. However, you do not have to be a psychic in order to learn how to remote view.

Some consider that remote viewing is much like experiencing dj vu, yet some people can remote view much easier than others do. Still some people who can remote view with very little practice time, while there are others may practice for years before perfecting their abilities of remote viewing.

An example of a natural and easy remote viewing would be a father or mother who all of the sudden knows that their child is in danger even though they are miles apart. Or the young woman who suddenly knows that there has been a death in the family and can pin point who it was, even though there has not been any calls made yet to announce any such death. These types of incidents are believed to be cases, or examples, of remote viewing.

When it comes time for remote viewing there is basically two different ways it is accomplished. Some people claim that they actually have their souls leave their body and travel to the location or point in time that they are trying to observe. Other people believe that they are simply able to observe the place or item from their minds eye. There is no need to worry as you, the remote viewer, are completely in control of your destination and when it is time to return to your original state or location.

You see, there is no reason to fear the ability to remote view, since it is a natural occurrence. You can begin learning how to remote view right now if you wish to do so. It is essential to find a quiet place with no distractions. Relax your body completely and then begin to visualize the area around you or another room in the house. Concentrate on the different settings of the past you were involved in or even go back in time a few years and actually feel you as being there.

Once you feel comfortable with that, you can begin using remote viewing to travel into the future. You can begin by seeing yourself happy a few years into the future and then a little at a time travel even further into the future. By practicing, you can succeed in the ability to remote view in hardly any time at all.

Various scientists believe that all humans had the ability to remote view at one time; however, this ability became dormant over the years. In order to succeed in remote viewing, you must communicate with your subconscious mind to gain access to this forgotten ability.

There are many things that can help you to achieve this. For example one of the most successful ways of communicating with your subconscious mind is by the use of hypnosis. You can try visiting a professional hypnotherapist or listening to a specialist 'remote viewing' hypnosis recording.

Simple affirmations, if repeated often enough is another great way of communicating with your subconscious mind. There is also new audio technology called 'binaural beats' which can get your brainwaves at the correct frequency for powers such as remote viewing to be possible.

Remote viewing may come naturally to you or you may struggle to achieve it. You may need to invest in some of the tools mentioned in order to succeed in remote viewing. However, you need to practice and be patient with yourself. When it comes to remote viewing, you have the ability to find objects, foresee future events and so much more!

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